All that we learned and heard about love, we had to unlearn. This is the story of that painful, but necessary journey. Like many we minimized love to a series of transactions driven by pride and confused as love. Fifty-fifty is not enough to sustain love, and if you are counting or in any way tracking, that is also not love but a business transaction disguised as love.

Love, as we learned through trials, tests, tribulations, and triumphs, is much more than a feeling; deeper than knowledge and stronger than determination-it’s the enemy of pride. Love grows uncontrollably deeper and more authentic, the more you give it, not the more you expect it.

Love defies logic.